The process of adolescent growing up is called the transitional age, it is a natural time period in the formation of the personality of each person. It remains only to wait it out with the least losses.
Instructions
Step 1
For a start, it's a good idea to calm down and let your child make his own first mistakes. You can enroll him in the wrestling section, in the dancing, figure skating, singing, drawing, and whatever he likes, or give him to a club of interests. They can be found on the Internet, people communicate not only with each other in virtuality, but also meet, arranging various shows, competitions, concerts, performances.
Step 2
You can buy a long-awaited item for your child's hobby for a holiday. A guitar or an easel with tassels, even a game console, motorcycle or skateboard. All this will force you to direct energy in the right direction and will allow you to go through such a difficult period in the life of every person in the least painful way.
Step 3
You also need to find out what your child lives and enjoys, perhaps spending time together will benefit everyone. You can take a vacation during your summer vacation and dash to the sea or the mountains. Such joint trips bring people together well, this will defuse the atmosphere and eliminate disagreements.
Step 4
Let go of the situation more often. It shouldn't be just the way it should be. After all, the opinion of the child also needs to be taken into account at least sometimes, even if in your opinion it is absolutely wrong. It is quite difficult to understand what is going on in a teenager's head, but still real if you add creativity and a little interest.
