Each parent during the adolescence of his child is worried and tries to help at least with something. In fact, this is correct, because a lot depends on the parents, how self-confident the child will enter into a new adult life. And most often it is for girls, much harder than boys, to cross this barrier of growing up.
Am I cute?
This question is the most urgent for young ladies. They can look at themselves in the mirror for a long time, and each pimple for them is a whole tragedy. Therefore, parents must first of all exclude any criticism of their daughter. This is especially true of appearance and shape. Everyone probably knows that there are women, completely inconspicuous in appearance, who consider themselves beauties and have no end to their gentlemen. But this is all thanks to their wise parents.
The first love
Usually he scares the parents: will there be an injury, will the grandchildren go. It's time to talk about contraception, or at least put a book about it in a prominent place. Even if you do not like the boy your daughter is in love with, you should not "open her eyes" too actively. The daughter will simply withdraw and will no longer share anything with you. Better tell her about your first love.
Finding yourself
Growing up children begin to unite in interest groups. You will not always like your daughter's company, but the main thing is that there is no danger to life and health in them. This is the very time for conversations and arguments with your daughter. It is important that they maintain respect for the young girl.
Oh, this physiology
Adolescence is a time of hormonal changes. The girl is growing rapidly, the proportions of the body change. As soon as you notice the first changes in your daughter, be sure to tell her what will happen to her every month. Buy pads in advance and explain how to use them.
I am already an adult
At this time, adolescents begin to actively show independence. Often, girls begin to ignore the household responsibilities already assigned to them. At this point, you need to be both persistence and understanding at the same time. Remind your daughter that adults have not only privileges but, above all, additional responsibilities. Be sure to give your daughter the right to make decisions on some issues herself, but much should remain under your control, because you are responsible for her upbringing and health.
