Falling in love and love - these two states differ very much, but the problem is that sometimes it is very difficult to understand which of the feelings possessed you or your chosen one. If you can still figure it out with yourself, then with another person you have to rely on intuition or try to determine his feelings by some signs.
Instructions
Step 1
Before trying to distinguish love from falling in love, it's a good idea to define both of these feelings. Falling in love is a feeling based on euphoria from the presence of another person nearby. It always precedes love. People first fall in love, passionately and passionately, and then they begin to have deep feelings for each other. Love usually comes with time. It is based not on passion and enthusiasm, like falling in love, but on knowledge. You got to know your loved one well, shared both pleasant and sad events with him, your feelings only get stronger over time. This is called love. You cannot demand from a partner that he felt deep love for you after several days of acquaintance, but whether it will appear soon depends, to a large extent, on you.
Step 2
Falling in love is a fire, a spark that ignites people. Through falling in love, people who are often so different, separated by their own habits, outlook on life and complex character traits, can begin to be together. They endow each other with ideal qualities, it seems to everyone that the partner is just a dream come true. This creates the foundation for a lasting relationship. According to research, the longer partners maintain illusions about each other, the stronger their bond is. It is the charm that people endow each other with that allows them to come to terms with unpleasant character traits that appear later.
Step 3
There are signs that are pretty clear about what kind of feelings rule in the soul of your man. For example, this is jealousy. If he is jealous of you, strongly and passionately (in the event that we are not talking about pathological self-doubt), then this suggests that falling in love prevails over love. Love implies trust. This feeling pacifies a man, while falling in love makes him act.
Step 4
A man loves you if you are confident in him, realizing that he is not interested in other women. Neuroscientists have found that when a couple is together for long enough, some changes occur in the frontal lobes of the brain under the influence of the neurotransmitters dopamine and oxytocin (hormones responsible for some psychological moments in human behavior). These people are no longer interested in other members of the opposite sex. Over the years, the connection grows so strong that they cannot even think about cheating or about leaving their other half. This is what testifies best of all to the fact that love has taken possession of a person.
