Sorting out your feelings for another person can not always be easy. Sometimes it seems that this is true love, but over time it becomes clear that it was just a passing hobby. That is why it is important to listen not only to your heart, but also to your mind.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about how strongly you are attached to the person. If it seems to you that you cannot live a minute without him, you are constantly bored and look forward to new meetings, this suggests that he is very important to you. But similar feelings can be experienced for a close friend, so do not jump to conclusions.
Step 2
Ask yourself if you want intimacy with this person. With a normal attraction, you will only want sex and nothing more. But if you experience true love, you will strive to please not only yourself, but also your chosen one or chosen one. Love makes you feel intense passion. Think about whether this feeling will disappear over time, whether you want to experience pleasure with another person.
Step 3
Imagine yourself being married to this person and determine if you would like to associate with him all your life. If you are not sure that you can get along together, or are not at all ready to start a family in the foreseeable future, you should not rush to confess your love to yourself and him. Also, think about whether you would like to have common children with the chosen one or the chosen one. If the answer is yes, you are highly likely to be in love.
Step 4
Highlight for yourself all the possible shortcomings of the chosen one or the chosen one. Decide how much you dislike them. If you are ready to accept a person for who he is, feel that he suits you in all respects and does not need to change anything in him, this may indicate that you are really in love.
Step 5
Pay attention to your inner feelings when you spend time with the person you like. Often, the feeling of love is accompanied by extraordinary lightness. A man in love relaxes next to his soul mate, literally breathes in it, forgets about all the problems and even about time. In some cases, the feeling of euphoria is accompanied by a change in voice, gait and a strong heart rate.
