Sometimes, on the basis of friendship, much warmer and more intimate feelings arise. You can transfer communication with a girlfriend to a different direction gradually. But if friendships were broken for some reason, then falling in love with a friend will be a little more difficult.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you need to restore at least friendly relations. Therefore, regardless of who is guilty of the quarrel, you will have to be the first to make contact and offer reconciliation. Do it discreetly - do not impose your friendship on the girl. Better to invite her to talk and find out what led to the quarrel, and not who is to blame. Offer to reconcile in a cafe for eating pizza and a glass of wine - it's fun and does not hint at your feelings of love. After all, having learned about your love, the girl can distance herself even more.
Step 2
Now you are friends again, and you can proceed to the next stage of the conquest. In some ways, being a friend is more beneficial than being a boyfriend. The girl shares with you her experiences, and at the same time a description of the positive and negative qualities of her ex, her impressions of their gifts and behavior. Use this for your own purposes - she herself told you which date she considers ideal and what qualities a potential applicant for her hand and heart should have. You do not have to guess with the choice of cafe and style of communication in order to conquer her - just be guided by her own words.
Step 3
The girl realized that you no longer treat her as a friend and hope for more? Now everything depends on her decision. Most likely, she will need a little time to think. Do not try to put pressure on her, do not try to tell her "what is there to think - we know each other well", "I think we will make an ideal couple" - such statements will only scare her away. It may also happen that she does not want to see you in the role of a guy and offers to leave everything as it is. Respect her choice. No need to go over to insults and persistently try to become her boyfriend - this way you will destroy the friendship completely, and it will be very difficult to correct the situation later.
