In married life, everything is rare and always goes like clockwork. When we get married, we take an oath to be together in joy and in trouble, in poverty and wealth. But in reality, life is changing, and relationships within the family are changing along with it. Sometimes the wife begins to feel the indifference of her husband and does not know how to regain her former happiness. How to proceed in this case?
Instructions
Step 1
1. Understand what kind of person is next to you. Perhaps he is a lover of novelty. Once upon a time you were new to him. And now you seem familiar and familiar to the smallest nuances. And he is attracted by new impressions, discoveries, women. In this case, you should change yourself. Try different styles of behavior, change images. And diversify your communication, from sex to spending the weekend.
Another option is possible - your husband is simply not happy with something in the relationship. For example, you constantly listen to your mom's advice, and this annoys your husband. He considers you dependent, plus he usually does not agree with the opinion of his mother-in-law. In this case, you need to analyze his words and actions. Perhaps it will not be difficult for you to change something in your habits, and your image will coincide with the image of an ideal woman in the eyes of your husband.
Step 2
2. Love yourself and devote more time to yourself. Go in for fitness, visit a beauty salon, do not forget about self-development. Often spouses' problems arise when one of them develops over time, while the other remains at the same level. It can be difficult to implement this advice if you are a housewife, you have a small child, and the only entertainment is watching TV series. And my husband goes to work, he has a busy life, he moves in a circle of interesting people, he is aware of technical and other innovations. That is, it develops, lives in step with the times. In this case, you still need to find time and opportunities for your personal self-improvement. And also be sure to show your husband that your household chores are no less important than his work. That raising and caring for a child is a responsible matter, and, say, the process of teething in a baby requires special attention from the parents. Let the husband also participate in the upbringing and care of the child. Understanding that this is not an easy business will help increase your credibility. At the same time, the husband will become more attached to the child, which will strengthen the family as a whole.
Step 3
3. The husband is too spoiled. In love, one loves, and the other accepts love. This rule does not apply to all relationships. But it is true when one of the spouses is indifferent and does not value the marriage, while the other loves and wants to keep the relationship. Perhaps an indifferent spouse actually needs his soul mate. Only he himself is not aware of this. Remember another proverb: "What we have we do not keep; when we lose, we cry." The wife takes care of her husband, washes his clothes, prepares food, loves and pleases him. And the man gets bored. He is by nature a hunter. He is no longer interested in such a relationship, there is no zest in them. What to do. "The less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us." For men, this statement is also true. Play coldness - even if not always, but at times. Try not to be intrusive and do not hang around your neck. Better be a bit of a bitch. It is no secret that men are firmly attached to eccentric women who are able to make a scandal out of the blue. Just make sure that whims do not develop into constant dissatisfaction with your husband. Use the "bitchiness method" to innovate the relationship and never nag your husband.
