Many couples, who have been living together for more than a month or a year, do not notice how love disappears in the daily routine, behind joint affairs and responsibilities, everyday problems. Once you carefully look at your husband and understand that this is still your closest person, that he is a reliable partner and friend, but in his eyes there is no longer the love that was before. Someone sighs sadly, regrets, says to himself: "This is family life, what can you do?", And someone takes on the role of a magic fairy and returns love, tenderness and romance to the relationship.
It is necessary
- Care
- Tenderness
- Fantasy
- Love
Instructions
Step 1
Start simple - kiss your husband in the morning. Many jump out of bed, have breakfast and run away on business, not even paying attention to their spouse - after all, work awaits you! It is not right. If you leave before him, leave him a note “Have a nice day. Love you! or come up with some other phrases that he will be pleased to read in the morning.
Step 2
If you come home from work after him, show how happy you are that he is at home. Do not run straight to the kitchen or to the computer, go to it. If he comes back later, show that you look forward to his return. Go out to meet him, kiss him. Ask how his day went. Be prepared to listen and empathize.
Step 3
Romantic dining has become so commonplace that it has lost its original charm. Give your husband a romantic morning - turn your apartment into a luxury spa resort. Prepare a wicker basket with a bathrobe, towel, various shampoos, masks and scrubs for men. Serve breakfast with a glass of fresh juice. Tell us what services are waiting for him at your resort - relaxing massage, aroma bath, pedicure, maybe something else.
Step 4
Don't turn every weekend into a shopping and family run. Remember how you spent them before you became a married couple. Go back to those days and go to the skating rink, to the shooting range, go to a concert.
Step 5
Think about what you did when you wanted your husband to fall in love with you. How you watched yourself, how you flirted with him, how you were interested in what worries him. Perhaps the point is that you are no longer the woman he married. Maybe it's time to bring her back?
Step 6
Add a little pepper to your sex life - it doesn't get worse over the years. Book yourself a luxurious lingerie photo shoot and send the photo to your husband. Ask him to write down five of his deepest desires in sex, put pieces of paper in his hat, get one and do what he dreams of. Come up with something of your own.
