Sometimes in life there are situations when you regret what you did, for example, you left the girl, and after a while you realized that you cannot live without her. Heart breaks with longing and emptiness. Sometimes parting happens on the initiative of the fair sex. It doesn't matter for what reason this happened, the main thing is that you want to return her and start from scratch.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think carefully if you really want to return it. Analyze your past relationship, the reasons that led to the breakup. Assess your overall relationship. Weigh the pros and cons. Maybe something was missing in your relationship, for example, the old passion subsided, everything became mundane and gray.
Step 2
Do not humiliate yourself and beg her to return - this will only push her away from you. Do not promise mountains of gold. Remember, actions are important, not words.
Step 3
Pause. Do not start leaning on her right away, because both you and she need to rethink the situation, understand how important and dear you are to each other.
Step 4
Try to control your emotions. Do not blame the girl for parting, it is better to look for shortcomings in yourself, try to fix them, eradicate them. If you blame your beloved in your soul, you will not be able to overcome resentment, anger, which means that the relationship will be strained.
Step 5
Think back to the beginning of your romance. Try to understand why the girl fell in love with you: for originality in courtship, gaiety, cheerfulness? After you have paused, give her a bouquet, perhaps you have not done this for a long time. Moreover, it is better to do this in the form of a surprise, buy flowers, put a note there, in which you compliment her and be sure to write that she is the best. Ask to give her the flowers of your friend.
Step 6
Invite her on a romantic date, and the invitation can be indicated in the same note found in the bouquet of flowers. For a date, choose a place where you can talk calmly.
Step 7
In some cases, the relationship is "eaten up" by everyday life, for example, you come home from work tired, and your conversations boil down to the fact that you retell your work day. "Run" from this. On a date, talk only about the positive, choose those topics of conversation that will appeal to her. Show your loved one that you love her and are ready to change for the better.
