Any man needs to be prepared for the birth of a child. Tips on how to raise the ideal father.
Instructions
Step 1
The period of pregnancy should be perceived as the happiest moment in the life of a spouse. Make your man perceive your condition as something wonderful, unusually joyful. Under the influence of stereotypes about the capriciousness of pregnant women, you should not annoy your husband in every possible way, make you run to the store at night for ice cream, without reason to be offended, referring to hormones. Act naturally, try to enjoy this moment with your spouse. Talk about your baby, spend more time together.
Step 2
It's great when a man shows interest in everything related to pregnancy and the birth of a baby. Support this hunt in him. You can go to courses together, read the relevant literature, watch a special video. Make your husband a full member. Just do not insist that the husband be present during childbirth, as this can serve as a real psychological trauma for a man.
Step 3
Prepare the house together before the baby arrives. Make a list of everything you need, go shopping, let your husband participate in choosing clothes and things for the child. Consult with your husband on how best to arrange the children's furniture.
Step 4
If a man does not stroke his stomach, does not talk to a child, do not focus on this. It is wrong to ask or demand to be sensual. This will cause unpleasant emotions in the man. This behavior does not mean at all that the man does not love you and does not expect the birth of a child. Perhaps he has not yet adapted to the situation, or perceives the situation differently. Give him time, do not be offended and do not lament.
Step 5
When the baby is born, do not limit his communication with the father. Even if a man clumsily holds a child, slowly and awkwardly cares for him, still praise, encourage her husband. He should contact the child as much as possible. Ask him to help you with bathing your baby, focusing on his reliable strong hands that will not drop the baby. Over time, the young dad will have the skill, he will carry out any worries about the child dexterously and quickly.
Step 6
Encourage, praise a man for the slightest success and advancement. Thank him for giving you the greatest happiness in the world, because the role of a man in planning a child, his birth is important, appreciate its importance.
