Modern women increasingly value freedom, which they are not ready to exchange even for legal marriage. Moreover, every year there are more and more women who deliberately abandon marital ties. Psychologists have identified a number of reasons why women do not want to get married.
Numerous studies of psychologists and family therapists indicate that recently women are increasingly abandoning formal marriage. Here are the main explanations for this behavior.
If a woman was once unlucky in love, her partner abandoned her, exchanged for a friend, offended, mocked, then in the future she will unconsciously fear romantic relationships, fearing that this could happen again. A divorced woman who has experienced treason, betrayal, pain, usually comes to her very hard after an unsuccessful marriage. And even if she meets a good and worthy person on the way, she can deliberately refuse new relationships, and even more so marriage, fearing that everything will happen overnight.
Also, women who were brought up in families with a tyrant father who terrorized their spouse and, possibly, allowed themselves to offend their daughter in every possible way, do not strive for marriage. This psychological trauma, inflicted in childhood, can become a serious reason for refusing to marry in adulthood.
Sometimes a woman does not create a marriage in the hope that sooner or later the person she loves will return to her. This period lasts especially long in the case of unrequited love, or when the object of adoration is not even aware of the feelings of his fan. Such a woman can wait for her beloved forever, and as a result then remains lonely.
Self-reliant, self-sufficient and independent
Another category of women who do not want to get married often includes independent and self-sufficient representatives of the fair sex. At the time of offering them a hand and heart, they usually manage to achieve a lot in life, become successful and prosperous business women, managers with their own bank account and real estate.
Most of these women are in no hurry with the wedding because of the fear of losing their wealth and success. Ladies, who put everything on their careers and promotion, also refuse to marry. For the most part, due to lack of time, because the careerist puts all her forces on obtaining the desired goal, position and success corresponding to it. And a man on this path may simply be superfluous. Indeed, in this case, you will have to pay attention and spend precious time on your spouse, and possibly on children, who, as a rule, simply do not "fit" into the career woman's work schedule. The way out is novels with the same workaholics who are not in a hurry to the registry office.
However, not only obvious careerists refuse to marry, but also, it would seem at first glance, the most ordinary girls who are accustomed mainly to living for themselves. As a rule, they do not want to put a burden on themselves in the form of a man.
After all, he needs to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, make a bed, wash clothes. Such chores around the house scare "poachers", and they prefer a lonely life.
Well, or, in extreme cases, a guest marriage, when partners periodically meet in a certain area to solve their physiological needs. Washing of socks-panties in this case does not apply to women's duties. In addition, guest marriage does not entail any responsibilities. In this case, the independence of the partners remains. Even if they go to a restaurant or cafe together, they often pay for themselves.
Successful and independent women are among the clear opponents of marriage. As a rule, they have achieved success in their careers, have good income, but do not want to burden themselves with marriage.Such women have a businesslike approach to solving issues. And if you suddenly decide to think about children, they will resort to the services of a donor, a surrogate mother, or take a baby from an orphanage.
Freedom-loving women are in no hurry to get married, for whom family and marriage are comparable to prison. They do not suffer from a lack of male attention, they are shown signs of attention, they do things for them. Such a woman allows herself to be loved and at the same time enjoys freedom, with friends and girlfriends, whom she will never exchange for one single one. For such women, entertainment is above all. But in the end, such women remain lonely, because they did not acquire either a husband or children, fearing to lose their freedom.
Do not want children
Not all women want to give birth to children, because they are afraid to spoil their figure and do not want to waste time on diapers, feeding the baby and raising him. Unfortunately, the number of such women has been increasing lately.