The dream of many people is to get married and not make mistakes. But its fulfillment is not a guarantee of a happy future. Sometimes family relationships bring more problems and worries than satisfaction. The reasons for this lie in the premarital period.
Instructions
Step 1
Decide on your life goals. They are all different for everyone, and if they are not the same for people planning a wedding, then you need to seriously think about what will happen next. With different goals, it is not easy to keep a happy family.
Step 2
Have a realistic perspective on marriage and your partner. A serious and mature approach will help you get married and not make mistakes. Remember that there are no ideal spouses and creating a family is a responsibility, not a game. Instead of complaining about the other's shortcomings, think about your own.
Step 3
Remember that marriage brings new responsibilities. Husband and wife must fulfill certain roles in the family, and not live as before. A man needs to take care of the financial side of the issue, and a woman needs to keep order and comfort in the house.
Step 4
Learn about the challenges of marriage. Family relationships are not as cloudless as they seem at first glance. For most couples, disagreements are related to money and they are definitely not up to the joys of life.
Step 5
Do not walk away from problems during courtship. Quarrels are common and widespread, but it is not enough to resolve them with a kiss. Discuss any misunderstandings that occur between you. If at the end of the conversation the essence of misunderstanding is revealed, and a new conflict does not arise, then by getting married, you will be able to find compromises.
Step 6
Don't get hung up on looks. It's nice when a loved one is attractive, but, starting only from the appearance, you can be disappointed. Positive inner qualities are what is needed for a strong marriage.
Step 7
Don't rush things. It takes time to understand yourself and get to know your future life partner. Therefore, do not rush to the wedding. Get to know each other well before marriage and only then make an informed choice.
Step 8
Objectively observe and evaluate. Life is not eternal romance, so it is very important to know how the chosen one behaves in everyday life. Pay particular attention to the relationship with relatives and the approach to work.
