It often happens that the child does not feel very comfortable in kindergarten. He cries, throws tantrums, screams. To make it easier for the baby to get through this period of his life, psychologists give several tips.
A child's first trip to kindergarten is a great emotional stress for everyone. The child, who before that was around the clock with his mother, is immersed in a new, unknown world for him. This is a great test for his psyche, because he leaves his comfort zone, gets out of the usual rhythm of life. The biggest psychological barrier for a child is the fear of losing the mother.
Allow your child to take a toy with him to kindergarten. Let him choose which toys he will take with him today. Thanks to his favorite toy, the baby will not feel lonely, because he will have a part of the house with him.
Sometimes the child starts crying and hysteria in the locker room or when approaching kindergarten. Try not to scold him, but calmly undress, say goodbye and give him to the caregivers as soon as possible. The more you persuade him, the louder and stronger the tantrum will become. Don't worry about him crying all day after you leave. Such children instantly calm down and are distracted by playing with other children. Of course, it is very difficult to see a child crying, but you should not cry with him, this will only aggravate the situation. After all, you can always call the caregiver and ask how your child is doing.
The process of adapting to kindergarten is very difficult, it is impossible to adjust it to a certain framework. Each child is unique, and if one gets used to kindergarten in two weeks, then the other will need a month, or even more. Do not scold your child under any circumstances. Be patient and remember to show your love to your baby as often as possible.
