Before you return an ex-boyfriend who, in spite of you or out of self-interest, started dating someone else, think about whether you really need it. Remember why you broke up. It means that something did not suit you in your relationship with this person. If, after weighing the pros and cons, you still want to purposefully bring your ex back to normal, take note of the following tips for how you could do it.
Instructions
Step 1
Improve your appearance significantly. If you are overweight, which spoils you and which your ex-boyfriend did not like, urgently eliminate him in the fitness room. If you have never applied makeup before, learn how to gently apply makeup to your face, refreshing it and improving your appearance. Transform with the help of a stylist in a beauty salon, change your image, update your wardrobe. You have to be "in full splendor" even for the occasional meeting with your ex.
Step 2
Now look for a date with your ex. And do it unobtrusively. Enter his life as much as possible. Ask your mutual friends to throw a house party or picnic in the countryside where you two will be invited. You know your boyfriend's interests. So connect to them, sign up for the same sports sections or clubs that he goes to.
Step 3
When meeting your ex-boyfriend every time as if by accident, do not look at him with crying and pleading eyes. Be cheerful, show that you don't need anything or anyone. What is easy, light and good in your soul. And you are just glad to see him again.
Step 4
Don't use abrupt steps to bond with your ex. Don't try to pull him into bed. The next day, he can easily slip out of it again, simply by apologizing to you for the momentary weakness. You need a completely different result. And it is not achieved in one week. You may have to wait a long time before the guy turns in your direction again. So be patient.
Step 5
Very rarely, but remind him of yourself with phone calls, SMS. At the same time, the conversation should be light-hearted: “How are you? I wanted to hear. I saw you in a dream, it was pleasant from this dream,”and so on.
Step 6
If you notice that the process of luring your ex is delayed, it does not push you away, but it does not bring you closer either, strengthen your actions. For example, at one of the joint friendly parties, try to retire with him and, during a friendly conversation, unexpectedly kiss. Then act according to the circumstances.
