The presence of a second half does not insure a person against the emergence of new loves. And if you didn’t expect love, but it accidentally appeared, you need to make a decision with whom you want to be, and, if necessary, inform your soulmate about it.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine for yourself what you want to achieve by informing your partner that you have a new lover. If you do not intend to part with your significant other because of a fleeting infatuation, consider whether it is worth telling your partner such news at all.
Step 2
Having realized that without a new hobby, life is not sweet for you, and your current partner should be transferred to the category of exes, do not forget to tell him about this as soon as possible. If before that you had strong and reverent feelings for each other, it is quite understandable that you will be afraid of offending your partner. However, if your spouse still loves you, you are unlikely to be able to make the care painless. Accept that you will hurt a loved one and understand that this is necessary in order for you and him to find your happiness in the future.
Step 3
Try to subtly prepare your partner for your departure. Ask what he would do if you decided to break up with him, what emotions you would feel if you met someone else. Such questions can scare or anger your partner, but in the future he will no longer be so surprised to learn the unpleasant truth.
Step 4
Some guys and girls, having found a new lover, begin to behave in such a way as to force the current partner to leave them. Of course, this method can have an effect, and as a result, you can make yourself a victim, which was left by a dishonest person, but think about the fact that you are acting dishonestly towards your soul mate, whom you once loved. In addition, if your partner values you, they will most likely try to maintain the relationship at all costs, enduring your whims.
Step 5
When you decide to break up, talk frankly with your significant other. Leave it up to you whether or not to report the fact of having a new love. You need to say that everything is over between you, and you will not change your mind. In the conversation, try not to give your partner hope for the renewal of your connection and do not hurt his already wounded pride.
