The betrayal of a loved one is always shocking and leaves a bitter feeling of betrayal in the soul. It is especially unpleasant that often girls are the last to know about the betrayal of their boyfriends. In order not to find yourself in such an unpleasant situation, watch your loved one. His deception can give out signs that indirectly indicate treason. However, keep in mind that one single sign is not enough. The more signs of cheating you find, the more reason you have to assume you have a rival.
Instructions
Step 1
The most obvious sign of cheating is, of course, a sudden change in your relationship. This is usually a noticeable chill on the part of the guy, although in some cases, when the guy feels guilty, the opposite situation can be observed. He begins to give unexpected gifts and in every possible way tries to please you, while looking guilty.
Step 2
You can define cheating by such a sign as suddenly manifested workaholism. For example, your boyfriend is often late at work and is constantly busy on weekends. Perhaps he is really busy with work, but it may also be that he covers up his infidelities with work or even started an affair with a colleague.
Step 3
A rather vivid sign of a guy's betrayal is increased attention to his appearance, which was previously not characteristic of him. He is constantly smartening up, acquiring a lot of new fashionable and stylish things, began to actively visit the gym (although he did not go there before). Sure, a guy can do all of this for you, but if you've been together for a long time, chances are he's trying to impress another girl.
Step 4
It is very easy to identify cheating by looking at a guy's mobile phone. Surely there will be calls and sms from your rival. However, if you are against such methods, just watch how your boyfriend treats his phone. You should be alerted if he does not part with his mobile phone at all (for example, he even takes it to the bathroom), conducts conversations so that you do not hear them, or exchanges text messages with someone all evenings.
Step 5
Finding out about cheating will help his attitude to sex. If the guy is in bed. Signs of treason in this case are the sudden appearance of a variety of new "things" (where did your boyfriend learn them?) Or, on the contrary, uncharacteristic monotony in bed and obvious boredom.
Step 6
If a guy has a car, you can identify cheating by the things “forgotten” in it by another girl (underwear, lipstick) and the position of the seat next to the driver, which is clearly not adjusted for you.
Step 7
If you live together, be alert when a guy spends a lot of time at the computer, while switching tabs in the browser or minimizing ICQ windows when you approach.
