If you find out that your spouse is cheating on you, you can try to identify the opponent. Of course, most likely, this will not make it easier for you, but at least you will have an idea of who you are dealing with.
Instructions
Step 1
To find out who became the lover of your beloved wife, pay attention to her phone conversations, maybe you once heard out of your ear the name of the guy calling her, whom she promised to call back in her free minute, because she did not have a conversation in front of you capabilities. You can also listen to what your spouse is talking about with her friends, perhaps she could make a reservation about some young man whose existence you do not know.
Step 2
Remember that women's friendship is not always real, maybe you know a girl who communicates closely with your wife, but their communication is based not only on sincere friendship, but also on envy, rivalry and competition. Secretly from your beloved, call her friend and make an appointment, let her know that you need to talk to her seriously. During the conversation, tell us what you know about the betrayal of your wife, how much you worry. Most likely, an envious acquaintance will gladly tell you the story of a new intrigue of your beloved one and even tell you who her lover is and where he can be found. However, choosing this option for obtaining information, you run the risk of stumbling upon a girl who not only will not tell you anything, will assure you that nothing like this happened, but will also inform your spouse that you were interested in her personal life.
Step 3
Check your spouse's social media list of friends. Surely you can find a suspicious new young man who actively rates and likes her on a photo, comments on notes, or even sends gifts. If such information cannot be found from your profile, just go to your wife when she communicates with someone online. If you are lucky, you can, as if by chance, see a dialogue with some man, which will immediately be hidden when you appear.
Step 4
Pay attention to your sweetheart's circle of friends. Maybe while talking to you and telling you the story of the last meeting with friends, she mentioned some guy who was not in their company before. Next time ask your spouse to take you with her, tell her that you would also like to rest a little, so you would not mind spending time with her friends.
Step 5
Also, if you are in doubt and are not sure if you can identify your lover on your own, hire a private detective who will do whatever you want for you.
Step 6
The simplest and most obvious way to establish the identity of an opponent is to talk to your spouse. Explain to her that you know about her betrayal, that she has betrayed you, and it would be honest for her to at least tell who became her new chosen one. Of course, your wife may not give you this information, but it's worth a try.
