Most men, faced with a betrayal of their wife, begin to think about their future behavior. Some of them feel confused, others are clearly attuned to certain actions. But the main thing in this situation is to calm down, think it over well and learn to live on.
Calm down as much as possible, decide for yourself whether you want to live with this woman. Then answer the question: "Will I be able to continue living with my wife?" And be sure to think: “Will I be able to live without my wife?” When you have decided and know for sure whether your wife will be with you in the future, you need to learn to live with your memories and thoughts. Start your life anew. Everything that happened to you will not go anywhere - this is history. Accept it and try not to remember. If you decide to continue living together, then begin to speak your thoughts. Ask your wife the same. Explain to her that you perceive the same information differently, since you are a man and she is a woman. Add more humor, a touch of irony and half a drop of sarcasm to your communication. Start going to romantic dates again. If you think it's not fair to ask the cheater on a date, then ask her to organize it. Go hiking to your locations (wherever your date, first kiss, wedding, or any other event took place). Add variety to your intimate life. Experiment, but in moderation. Nobody should feel offended. Everyone should be comfortable, and if you can't get on with your life together, then think it won't be easy. Start a new life. The best way is to travel to a place where you and your wife weren't. Replace all your clothes and all the objects that surround you with new ones that will not remind you of that woman. Ask friends for help and support. At the same time, be sure to tell them not to remember your ex-woman (not jokingly, not with irony, in any way!). If you are comfortable with the job, ask your supervisor for a more challenging assignment. This will give you the opportunity to mentally distance yourself from the situation. Take up sports - your loved ones or brand new.
