Reasonable expressions of jealousy will add new value to your relationship, especially if you have been together for several years. But sometimes this feeling takes on an acute pathological form, significantly affecting the relationship of the couple and provoking a series of scandals. If this happened to you, do not ignore this problem.
Do not provoke a man by giving him another reason for jealousy. Minimize stories about who is courting you and how. A jealous person can take this kind of information close to his heart. And it is better to remain silent than to give him another cause for concern.
It is believed that jealousy is based on a feeling of self-doubt. To solve the problem, try to notice the positive qualities in your lover and talk to him about it more often. Praising the dignity of someone else's man and comparing your husband to him is not the best idea. You can hurt the already vulnerable pride of a jealous person.
A frank conversation with a spouse will help to avoid scandals and misunderstandings arising from lack of agreement. After finding out the specific reason for the manifestation of jealousy, try to eliminate it as quickly as possible and improve your relationship. So, if you are jealous of your cute colleague, it will be the best way to limit communication with him. For example, by rejecting calls outside office hours.
But sometimes jealousy can be pathological in nature, turning into a mental disorder, manifested in unreasonable outbursts of jealousy. If the jealous person is not provided with psychological and medical assistance in time, outbursts of anger provoked by jealousy can lead to physical violence or even violence against you or those who show interest in you.
In rare cases, methods of dealing with jealousy do not help. Why? Because love is accompanied by trust and confidence in your life partner. And if your spouse's jealousy does not allow you to live a full life, shackling hands and feet, this is not love, but a selfish feeling of ownership. It is better to break off such a relationship.
