A crisis in a relationship is the very critical point that any couple inevitably comes to. It is believed that such crises recur every 3-5 years. But the most difficult is the first year of the relationship. It is during this period that people learn the most important things about each other.
Instructions
Step 1
Be considerate of your significant other. At the beginning of a relationship, it always seems that the person you are dating is the most unique, extraordinary, reliable, who understands you perfectly. But a month, two months, six months pass … and the veil falls from the eyes. And then one day he comes - a crisis of relations. Reproaches, nagging, quarrels begin. It always seems to you that in any dispute you are right, and your loved one unjustly offended you. Such moments bring a lot of tears, nervousness and grief. But the fact that they are is not so bad. It is during these periods that you can understand how they treat you. By words and gestures, you can understand how dear you are to this person. Not because he can say something hurtful in his hearts, but because emotions will betray his state. Although you need to be attentive to each other not only during quarrels, but also during "peace". Remember to say more often that you love.
Step 2
Don't make every crisis a tragedy. When the first fight occurs, the relationship seems to be over. You think that a loved one does not love you and you will no longer meet. But do not forget that he does not have the best opinion of you at the moment. Therefore, when you meet, try to smooth out the "sharp corners". This does not apply to couples who initially understand that they are not suitable for each other. In this case, it is better not to suffer.
Step 3
Have a heart-to-heart conversation with your loved one. It is imperative to talk after every quarrel and just when the opportunity arises. Communication opens a person to us from a new, sometimes unexpected, side. Tell each other about your childhood, fears, express your opinion on this or that occasion. The main thing is not to be silent. The other person will never be able to find out what is going on in your head: your thoughts, feelings, experiences. This is especially true for women, who can often come up with a problem themselves. If something does not suit you, outraged, if you have any doubts and questions, immediately talk about it. This is very important for families where people can keep silent about their problems for years, but sooner or later an "explosion" occurs, and sometimes divorce. The most important thing is that the desire to maintain relations and overcome the crisis is mutual. One person's efforts usually end in defeat.
Step 4
Treat each other with respect. You must understand that your loved one has his own opinion and his own views on different situations. Always try to reach a compromise in solving any problems. Attention, love, understanding of a loved one (so as to feel a change in his mood) will definitely help you overcome any crises and be together for many years.
