In raising children, each parent's influence is based on rules that differ from each other. And in order for a child to grow up as a person, you need to make a lot of effort.
There are no ideal parents, because parenting is a creative process that is individual for each child. You cannot educate correctly or incorrectly, but you can educate an adequate and strong personality who will confidently enter the adult world and create a name for himself. And for this you need to rely on some rules, which, by the way, are not so difficult to follow.
- Support your child in his endeavors. Although the apple falls not far from the apple tree, it is not a fact that your child will choose those hobbies and hobbies that you like. And this is normal, since he is a separate person with his own ambitions and desires that make up his character and realize him as a person. If you restrict a child in his aspirations, prohibit, for example, going to ballroom dancing and forcibly enrolling in the martial arts section. Then your child, at best, will become a neurasthenic with unfulfilled dreams and desires, at worst it is better not to describe.
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Have patience: For a child, playing on pot lids is often not an annoyance, for example, unlike you. Always try to explain clearly, calmly and intelligibly why the behavior is unacceptable and offer alternatives.
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Always be ready to carry on the conversation. Any child's question to you is, first of all, giving you confidence and seeking help. Who can a 6 year old boy or girl turn to if not his mother? Always try to answer questions, otherwise ignoring can lead to the fact that the child becomes withdrawn, uncommunicative, withdrawn into himself.
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no matter how good a friend you are to your child, you still remain a mother for him, who should not only be friends, but also prepare him for adulthood.
