Not every man in Othello's soul is ready to kill for treason. But almost everyone experiences this fact extremely painfully, if his beloved was at least to some extent dear to him. A man's jealousy is a very difficult feeling, it is biological, that is, inherent regardless of upbringing. The situation is difficult, and many are interested in the question - what to do if the girl has changed.
First, you need to distinguish facts from the stories of others, often the girl is trying to slander her friends or your competitor, who only wants to embroil you. Therefore, while they themselves have not seen anything, consider the betrayal unproven, even if she herself says that she has changed. Sometimes girls try to show that they are needed and interesting, they come up with stories about cheating in order to annoy the man. Stick to the benefit of the doubt. That is, until nothing is proven, do not take any serious action. Secondly, if the betrayal took place, find out if it is connected with the structure of the girl's personality. Part of the blame always lies with the man, but not all of the blame. Perhaps you chose a demonstrative type of girl as your favorite, who craves male attention, and she simply could not stop in time, moved from harmless flirting to a closer relationship. You cannot judge her too harshly for this, this is her natural quality, such women need constantly vivid impressions. So that the betrayal does not happen again, fill her life with unusual events, come with a rose in your mouth, buy new underwear and organize candlelight dinners. This fee is not that high, because it is the girls of the demonstrative type who usually look the most impressive and are able to become the calling card of their husband. Third, look for your part of the blame. Men are often to blame for the fact that they often begin to take what their beloved has done for granted, and do not pay enough attention to the development of relationships. Perhaps the girl thinks that it is time to move on to the stage of legitimizing your connection, but you, as a solid person, feel that you are not yet financially or morally ready. And the womanizer, who seduced her, sang to her about marriage and future children. Therefore, after deciding whether you can forgive in principle, seriously consider and discuss the development of relations. Many girls rightly believe that while they are not married, they have the right to communicate with anyone. Therefore, if the girl is very dear to you and you can forgive - propose and live happily ever after. If not, then it is better to end the relationship immediately, it will be more honest.
