Non-reciprocal love can bring a lot of pain and tears. But do not give up and give up your happiness. Try to turn unrequited love into mutual, and maybe you can be with your loved one.
Get closer to your love object
It is difficult to win over a person if you never communicate and he does not know about your existence. Therefore, the first step is to declare yourself, but you should not do stupid things or impose. It is enough to enter his social circle, get to know him or one of his friends.
Explore as much information as possible about him. You need to find out his interests, hobbies, favorite movies, music, books and other information that can be used for communication. Finding out all this will not be difficult if he is registered on social networks or you have mutual acquaintances. Ask around, read, listen to his conversations, and you will know all the necessary information in a couple of days.
Use the information to interest your love object. Talk about his favorite movie and tell me how much you like it. Most likely, your lover will not be able to resist and join in the conversation. Then move on to discuss other common hobbies, suggest spending time together to share your interests. For example, go rollerblading together, go to the movies for a new movie, or go to a concert of your favorite band.
Win the heart of your loved one
When you have the opportunity to spend time alone, do not use it too often. Obsession can alienate a person, but you shouldn't be too far away. Try to make meeting you an important part of his life. Come up with original and interesting ways to spend your time - going on rides or walking on the roofs at night, depending on the interests of the person.
You most likely already know what type of people your loved one likes. Just try to comply with it, at least in general terms. For example, if he likes girls who are quiet and shy, try to talk less, listen more, and behave accordingly. And if you like pranksters, stock up on a few fresh anecdotes before the meeting in order to insert them into the conversation.
Try to add a little romance to your relationship. You don’t need to hang yourself openly or get attention, but flirting will help speed up your relationship. Long eye contact, casual touches, a couple of compliments, cute gifts for no particular reason, and heartfelt conversations. Basically, the tactics are similar: girls need to create a desire to protect, and guys need to create a feeling of protection and security.
