Folk wisdom says "do not be born beautiful …" But what is said in the second part of the proverb, perhaps, will be more complicated than external attractiveness. To be born happy, or rather to become happy, is difficult, under the burden of daily worries, worries, difficulties. However, who, if not the parents, will help the girl understand that happiness is within us, and little depends on external factors.
Instructions
Step 1
Raise Your Daughter's Self-Esteem Parents often go too far with criticism in their efforts to raise their child to the latest systems and high standards. What is perceived by you as an innocent joke, the girl seems cruel ridicule. Do not criticize your daughter for nothing, especially avoid judging in the presence of her friends. Be guided by the rule that Carnegie deduced: “Be sincere in your assessments and generous in praise.” Girls are especially sensitive to criticism of their appearance. Even if now she is an "ugly duckling", do not focus on it. Otherwise, external data will change, and the feeling of her own unattractiveness will remain with her for life.
Step 2
Develop her talents Nothing is more conducive to finding yourself as creative activity. Enroll your daughter in dancing, gymnastics, art or music school. Do not insist on choosing one direction or another, give the girl the opportunity to independently choose what she likes. Be attentive to her creative impulses, do not refuse to listen to a song composed by her daughter or read a poem written by her. Even if the piece is far from perfect, find something to praise for.
Step 3
Take an interest in her feelings Happy is he who is happy at home, they said in ancient times. And they were right. The ability to build relationships with your loved ones is the key to a comfortable and calm atmosphere in the family. Someday your little girl will become a mistress herself, and she will take care of not only cleanliness and comfort, but also the psychological atmosphere in the house. It's good if from childhood she learns to speak openly about her feelings, learns to understand other people, to listen to them. compromise. Don't dismiss her problems, even if they seem trivial to you. Remember yourself in adolescence: parting with a fan or a quarrel with a friend seemed like the end of the world. Let the girl learn to experience all facets of relationships with people, otherwise she will become closed and begin to be ashamed of her own feelings.
