Have you been dating a guy for several months, but you still haven't dared to invite him home? Something inside resists and interferes with the natural course of events. And the guy from time to time hints that he doesn't mind seeing how you live. How to invite a guy to visit you?
What is stopping you from inviting a guy home? Sometimes a variety of fears can be the cause. Many girls are embarrassed by the surroundings of the house, their parents. Or do you feel like inviting a guy home is suggesting sex? Especially if the apartment you live in belongs to your parents or is rented. You don't want a guy to fall in love with a house and a fortune, do you? A young man, first of all, appreciates you as a person. And if something is wrong in the apartment, perhaps the guy will have the opportunity to show his masculine abilities and fix or fix something. It often happens that in front of a young man you want to look more wealthy. Think how long you can maintain a "bloated" image? Sooner or later, the guy will find out all the same. Don't worry about your parents, because they are not chosen. Your or his parents are who they are. Find something to be proud of in your family. Be grateful to your dad and mom, because they gave birth to you. An invitation to visit does not mean that you have to have sex. Everything is only according to your wishes. The rules of good form and friendly relations provide for inviting each other for a cup of tea or coffee, lunch, conversation. There is nothing wrong with that.
Prepare for the young man's arrival in advance. Clean up your apartment or your room: dust off, mop the floor. You don't want to shock the guy, do you? Buy something tasty for your tea. A hearty meal is good, but not necessary. After all, the young man did not come to eat, but to visit. It's good to cook something on your own, because this is an occasion to show your culinary skills and prove yourself as a mistress of the house. Think about what you will do. As you know, pauses in words are replaced by a kiss. But if sex is not included in the plans this evening, it is better to invite the guy to play his favorite board game together, watch a movie, and chat. Show your boyfriend your favorite things, interesting books, a photo album. Then go for a walk with the dog. If you have known each other for a long time, do not hesitate to go with the young man to the store, if required. In general, live a normal life and get your guy involved.
By inviting a man home, you will become closer to him. If this is your person, then he will appreciate this act, and then the relationship will reach a new level. After all, this means closeness, trust, openness. If a guy doesn't go through this stage and something scares him, it means that he is not ready for a close relationship with you. Do not be upset if the apartment is more important to the young man than you. You're not looking for a gigolo, are you?