More recently, the idea that a girl can take the initiative in a relationship with the stronger sex seemed almost a "shock to the foundations." Now it doesn't shock anyone. Therefore, if a girl really likes a guy, she may well "take matters into her own hands." In other words, invite him to get to know him better. Especially if for some reason he shows restraint. There are many ways. How best to do this depends on the character of the girl, her habits, temperament, and upbringing.
Instructions
Step 1
The easiest (and sometimes the most effective) way is to approach a young man and tell him frankly something like this: “Listen, I like you! Let's meet! It has both pros and cons. On the one hand, it immediately brings clarity. But, unfortunately, he can also just scare off a nice but shy guy. And some males, moreover, may mistakenly, but completely sincerely, consider such a girl to be frivolous, ill-mannered.
Step 2
You can resort to an indirect invitation. For example, inviting a man to go somewhere together. If he willingly agrees, half the job has already been done, now it depends only on you to make him enjoy the time together. If he refuses (especially if the refusals continue in the future), then he either loves another, or you, alas, are not in his taste.
Step 3
How to act in such a situation is up to you, of course. Perhaps the best way out is to overcome wounded pride and not hang around the neck of a young man who is clearly not interested in you. There are enough guys in the world who can love you and appreciate you.
Step 4
Quite an effective way is to ask a mutual friend, girlfriend or “just” acquaintance for help. So that the "object" of your interest is hinted: "Pay attention, she's a good girl, and she is clearly not indifferent to you." Sometimes it can help.
Step 5
Try to find out as much as possible about this guy. What is his character, hobbies, habits. If you find some common interest, communication will go like clockwork! Then it will be much easier to make him think that you should meet.
Step 6
And remember: men in the overwhelming majority do not like girls who are too "relaxed", too free-spirited. But in the same way they are frightened off by "touchy". Try to stick to the "golden mean"! Just like one poet recommended:
Take care, girl, kisses, Look, don't overdo it!
