Quite often there is such a situation: the guy really liked the girl, he wants to get to know her better, but hesitates to tell about his feelings. As a rule, this happens because he is afraid of being rejected. Or because of excessive impressionability, shyness by nature. Or simply because she does not assess her own chances highly, if a girl is from a higher social group, for example.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't force things. You can, of course, pluck up the courage and immediately blur out: “Listen, I really like you. I dream that you will be my girlfriend. Let's meet . But the chances are slim. Not every girl will like this tactic. It is better to take your time, gradually.
Step 2
Try to make a good impression on the girl from the very first minutes of your acquaintance. Your clothes should be clean, neat, and your shoes cleaned. Of course, do not forget to shower regularly, shave and keep your nails clean. Many guys neglect this, but in vain. Remember, neatness and cleanliness are very important for any decent, self-respecting girl. The smell of sweat or a dirty edge under the nails can immediately “put an end to all your efforts.
Step 3
Try to behave yourself. In no case do not use obscene or simply slang words in a conversation, masking your timidity and insecurity with them. Suggest to yourself: "She will not eat me, there is nothing to be afraid of!" Try not to allow long, awkward pauses, talk about what is interesting not to you, but to the girl. You can joke, tell some funny story or anecdote. Your task: to inspire the girl with confidence that you are a polite, well-mannered, decent person, in whose company it is interesting and pleasant to be.
Step 4
Look after the girl beautifully, give her flowers, show signs of attention, for example, open doors for her, give her a hand when getting off the bus. Try to find out which show or band she likes and invite to that show. If she readily agrees, consider that half the job has already been done.
Step 5
After the show or concert, take her home. And already at the door, you can say: "I want us to be together!" If you behaved correctly and the girl liked her, she will almost certainly answer in the affirmative.
