Today's rhythm of life is often not conducive to lengthy preparations for getting to know the person you like. But if you are counting on a more or less serious relationship, you should have a few techniques and methods of acquaintance in reserve. And the main thing is to be yourself and not get upset about a possible refusal.
Instructions
Step 1
If you see someone you like from time to time, and you have mutual friends, then there is nothing easier than asking them to introduce you. At the first meeting, do not talk about yourself incessantly: firstly, your friends have probably already told a lot about you in order to interest him (her) in getting to know you, and secondly, focusing on yourself, you can be known, at the best case, an inattentive interlocutor. Answer only those questions that you will be asked, but do not open up completely in order to intrigue the man (woman) and continue acquaintance with him (her).
Step 2
Acquaintance on the street in the minds of men and women has a different shade. Men, basically, just want to meet a girl they like, who can ignore them. A woman, meeting a man on the street, cannot always be correctly understood, despite the fact that morals are now quite free. The best option is to go for a walk with friends or with girlfriends (for ladies) and meet the man (woman) you like, who is also in the company of friends at the moment. But men should be careful and choose exclusively girlish companies, otherwise the matter may come to a mass brawl.
Step 3
It is better to choose phrases for acquaintance that are not the most commonplace. The sentence "What are you doing tonight" is a long time ago, and can cause inappropriate reactions. You can ask how to get to the library (to the stadium, to the metro station, to the zoo, to the monument to Miklouho-Maclay). But here it is important to observe two very important rules: never make acquaintance when you are near the requested object (or under the pointer) and, secondly, choose the right time of day for such a question.
Step 4
Use some unexpected technique. It is better not to stage fights, thefts and abductions. If you meet a pretty girl on a hot day, offer her ice cream or lemonade. If the girl refuses or says: “I don’t like sweets,” then offer her, for example, dark chocolate with Antonovka. This, if it does not persuade the girl to meet you, will at least cause a smile on her lips. Play with contrasts.
Step 5
Present a bouquet of flowers to the girl you like. A real woman is unlikely to refuse such a present. When handing the bouquet, give her a charming smile and introduce yourself. You will have good chances for making an acquaintance, especially if the young lady's heart is free, and the smile was charming without a stretch.
Step 6
It is much easier to get to know each other in a resort, club or restaurant: the relaxing atmosphere is conducive to communication. Invite the girl (young man) for a boat trip or a dance: in the given circumstances, this will be regarded not as an obsession, but as a desire to have a good time in good company.
Step 7
If you have a pet, then getting to know the person you like is much easier. If a person is really good, then a dog, cat, or even a tame goldfinch will become indispensable intermediaries in acquaintance.
Step 8
If you are shy about making acquaintances in real life, start by chatting over the Internet. By becoming an invisible interlocutor, you will acquire the initial skills of acquaintance in order to then successfully communicate outside of social networks. Use dating sites, but with caution, as a virtual friend (girlfriend) may not always pursue good goals.
