Even in recent times, it was considered inappropriate and even shameful for a girl to take initiative when communicating with the opposite sex. Now times have changed, which means that morals have also changed. Should you wait for a guy you like to invite you to a date? Or it may be better to throw away doubts and complexes and call him somewhere herself. Of course, any girl can wait for a refusal, but it can also happen that a guy will gladly agree to meet.
Instructions
Step 1
Be prepared to be rejected.
If a girl watches the object of her sympathy for a very long time and nurtures hopes and dreams inside herself, it will be very difficult for her to come to terms with the refusal of her beloved. She can become melancholy and depressed. The best way out of the situation is to perceive everything as a kind of game. For example, you can imagine that you are doing a challenge task, so it is easier to relax and be natural. Refusal should not be taken as a personal tragedy. Everyone has different tastes, so the refusal of this or that person is not humiliation for you, but just a sign that he has different tastes and interests. It will be very ugly if, after the guy refused you, you begin to taunt or humiliate him. One must be able to suffer defeat with dignity.
Step 2
Only invite to the meeting yourself.
You shouldn't ask your friend to call the guy you care about on a date on your behalf. It looks childish and does not adorn you in the eyes of your chosen one. This situation can initially provoke a refusal, even if the young man likes you. You have to work up the courage and approach the guy yourself.
Step 3
Seize the opportunity.
It is better to invite to a meeting one-on-one. You should not approach a guy if he is surrounded by friends. His reaction to an invitation may be feigned, for example, he may be embarrassed or want to refuse to show off his "popularity" in front of friends. It is better to offer to meet face to face, then no one will stop you from talking frankly.
Step 4
Don't make plans.
Do not torment yourself with unnecessary excitement and do not make a conversation plan. You will see that your plan is still not being implemented, since the words you have conceived will surely fly out of your head. Just outline for yourself the main idea that you want to convey to the chosen one.
Step 5
Be natural.
When inviting a guy to a meeting, do not behave in a way that is unusual for you. Naturalness is an excellent quality in a person that always attracts people. A sincere smile during a conversation can charm a guy, even if he saw you for the first time. Remember that you are an attractive girl and be confident in yourself and your attractiveness. When a person loves himself, he subconsciously forces others to treat himself positively.
