In the days of our grandmothers, the girls waited for the young man to take the initiative and invite him out on a date. Times have changed. A modern woman has complete freedom in this regard. She can be the first to take the initiative, take the situation into her own hands and invite the man she likes on a date or visit her. You just need to prepare in advance and do everything right.
It is necessary
determination, self-confidence and good mood
Instructions
Step 1
First, make sure that you really want to invite the man to your place and that this date will bring you joy.
Step 2
Find the right moment for the conversation in advance. This is necessary so that no one bothers you. Walk up to the man and start a conversation. Make sure that there are no strangers around you and no witnesses to your conversation.
Step 3
When you invite a man to visit, try to speak calmly and firmly. Do not worry. Remember that you are only asking a man to spend the evening together, not asking him to marry you. Therefore, you have nothing to worry about.
Step 4
Remember to smile and joke as you talk. Smiling will help you elicit a positive response from your interlocutor.
Step 5
Do not admit that you have been looking for meetings with this person for a long time and wanted to be alone with him. With this pressure, you can scare a man away. Then he will find any reason to refuse your offer.
Step 6
Don't rush things. Be prepared for a negative response. A man may have his own plans for the evening. Therefore, it is necessary to invite to visit two or three days before the scheduled meeting. During this time, he will be able to do all his business and have fun with you.
Step 7
Think in advance of a spare time and date for a date in case the young man is busy. Let him decide on the day when it will be convenient for him to come to visit.
Step 8
Be confident and fear nothing. Learn a few jokes or anecdotes so you don't get bored when you meet.
Step 9
If you are embarrassed to invite a man to visit in person, then call him on the phone. Practice what you want to say in advance. You can even write a small hint for this. She will give you confidence in your conversation.
Step 10
Write a message or invite a young man to visit during a chat on a social network. This is the easiest way.
