Relationships with dear people will not be cloudless and rosy if you do not put in the proper effort. To achieve a family idyll, one must not only adhere to the correct line of behavior, but also sometimes sacrifice something, coming to compromises. In addition, personal self-improvement will not hurt.
Instructions
Step 1
Start to love and appreciate your loved ones, regardless of their shortcomings. Focus your attention on the positive qualities of the people you love. Reward and praise them for their success on a personal, professional, or creative front. Speak about your family only in a biased manner. Do not weave intrigues behind their backs, do not gossip about them.
Step 2
Be attentive and sympathetic to the problems and failures of your relatives and loved ones. Never be indifferent if trouble happens to any of them. Be sure to provide all possible help without waiting for you to be asked about it. Remember that mutual help and respect is what characterizes a happy and close-knit family.
Step 3
Get together more often for family dinners, TV shows, or peaceful discussions. Get out into nature, travel, discover new places, recharging yourself with pleasant impressions. Don't let any of your loved ones get bored in splendid isolation. Try to give everyone the same amount of attention. Especially respect the interests of the older generation.
Step 4
Engage in the comprehensive development of the young members of your family. Surprise and delight kids with interesting gifts, informative stories and wise advice that will be useful to them in later life.
Step 5
Stop arguments, quarrels and conflicts between relatives. Learn to negotiate peacefully with everyone. In some cases, act as a peacemaker using the art of diplomacy and tact. Your task is to make sure that the rights and interests of all members of your family are not infringed upon by anyone.
Step 6
Do not forget to congratulate your loved ones on all the holidays and memorable dates. Try not to give unnecessary and unoriginal gifts. Remember, the surprise must be emotional and practical. Therefore, gifts made by oneself are so highly valued in the world.
