Most women want to get married, start a family, have children. This dream of women has been in their heads since a young age: in kindergarten, little girls play with the family. But, unfortunately, some girls cannot find their betrothed until maturity, and the creation of a family is postponed indefinitely.
Why are women unable to start a family?
Well, firstly, it is the psychological unwillingness of the woman herself to have a family. She may say that she is already ripe for marriage and for a family, but in fact, deep down she is afraid of such responsibility, afraid of losing her freedom, afraid of not catching up in career growth. Secondly, it is the unwillingness, or better to say, the fear of a man to start a family. At the beginning of a relationship, everything goes well: flowers, dates, gifts, but as soon as it comes to marriage, the partner changes dramatically in terms of behavior. He tries not to see his companion, ignores her, and soon breaks up with her altogether. And this happens every time, every relationship ends with a conversation about the wedding.
What could cause this problem?
Women are zealously confident that a man needs to be pushed into the registry office by force, forced to marry himself, and, moreover, to do this almost two months after they met. This is the main mistake! Do not rush to "push" a man down the aisle, when necessary, he will ripen himself. Because women start rushing things, men run away. A man needs to be allowed to get used psychologically to the fact that he is ready to be a husband and a father, and this is not a quick process.
Not every man needs to start a family. Women get upset about dozens of unsuccessful attempts to get married, but the point is that this is not their man! This happens! There are some signs that your current companion is your man, and that he will soon be ready for a wedding:
He tells everyone that he loves his woman. A loving man always tells everyone (his friends, relatives, acquaintances) only the best reviews about his woman. Most importantly, he talks about her all the time. If he does this, it means that he wants to say by this that this woman is his, and it is dangerous to encroach on her.
The man speaks honestly. If he loves his partner, he will tell her everything directly and in the eyes. If he liked her right away and he is ready to start a family with her, then the woman will find out about it in a week, at most a month.
A man takes care of his beloved. He pays for it in a cafe, helps to carry things, escorts home. These seemingly small little things, but how important they are when creating a family. Your man will be a caring husband.
Relationship psychology is complex. Finding your man is sometimes incredibly difficult. But, if a woman nevertheless found the same person, then she should not rush him, she needs to give him time to take this important step in his life.
