Marriage swindlers have broken more than one woman's heart. Unfortunately, even experienced and intelligent mature ladies sometimes trust such men, failing to discern scammers in them. However, there are several signs that a marriage swindler can be recognized, and women should be aware of them.
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to the questions a man asks you the most. If they touch your property in one way or another, you should be wary. He may ask where you live, if you have a car, and if not, are you planning to buy one, if your parents are rich and will they leave you an inheritance, etc.
Step 2
If a man has found out a lot about your property, try to inform him, as if by chance, that, for example, you bought an apartment on credit and cannot settle accounts with the bank in any way. Look at the reaction of your interlocutor, try to notice changes in his behavior.
Step 3
Discuss the importance of the prenuptial agreement. As a rule, scammers, seeing that the victim does not plan to part with his property and already knows how to defend himself, lose interest in her.
Step 4
Ask the man about his life and work. As a rule, marriage swindlers are reluctant to talk about themselves. Some of them claim that they even have their own business, but when dating a beautiful and interesting woman, they cannot think about work.
Step 5
Check your fan's contact details. In some cases, marriage swindlers prefer to change phone numbers and move from place to place. If a man persuades you to go to your home at least once, but does not allow you to visit his apartment, you should be on your guard.
Step 6
Ask the man to introduce you to his relatives and try to introduce him to your parents and friends. Marriage swindlers avoid contact with loved ones of their victim, and also try not to let her get to know his relatives.
Step 7
Pay attention to your fan's behavior. If he is romantic, gentle and witty, but at the same time constantly complains about a difficult life and tries to get support, understanding and willingness from you to help, most likely you are in front of a marriage swindler. He is attentive and submissive, reads tender poetry, gives bouquets and lavishes compliments, but this is just a way to lull a woman's vigilance.