If your relationships with men constantly end in fiasco and you are tired of the fruitless search for the perfect partner, you may need to change the way you think about ideal relationships and rethink your behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
Take an interest in the man's affairs. Lack of attention to your partner's career, studies and hobbies will quickly start to offend him, and then become the reason for the breakup. But a girl who is keenly interested in how her beloved's day went has every chance of a long-term relationship. And what to do if a man's affairs are incomprehensible and uninteresting? First, identify the area in which you need to begin to navigate. It is very important not to overload yourself with unnecessary information. For example, you already know that your man loves fishing. Find out which one: summer, winter, scuba diving, etc. Find information on this topic on the Internet and study it carefully. Don't try to read complex materials right away - start from scratch. Start a special notebook in which you write down the terms mentioned by your beloved, and then find out their meaning. Naturally, all this should be done discreetly. And one day you will delight a man by the fact that you will be able to maintain a conversation about his hobby at a good level.
Step 2
Don't forget about feminine dignity. This is especially true at the beginning of a relationship. Do not run after the man and do not force events. The stronger sex is attracted only by those people who need to be conquered. This next tip may sound old-fashioned, but you shouldn't accept expensive gifts until your relationship is on a higher level and you become the bride and groom. Behave with dignity - this quality is valuable at all times.
Step 3
Do not allow the man to be rude and disrespectful. Here we are not talking about rudeness or aggressiveness - you should initially stay away from such individuals. But if your lover destroyed the contents of the refrigerator, knowing that you will come late and hungry, or offered to come to him by bus, because he is too lazy to go after the car - these are clear signals of disrespect. Stop this behavior, and if it does not help, it is better to part, because in the future everything will become even worse.
Step 4
Don't try to flirt with other men to make you jealous or assertive. For the stronger sex, this behavior is unacceptable and equated to treason. With a woman who demonstrates herself, flirts and behaves too openly, a man can get acquainted for sex, but not for creating a family.
Step 5
Remember: love is not a leash. Accept that you cannot be together around the clock. Women who seek to keep a man on a leash are almost always lonely. Happy couples always have personal space, free time and a life outside the family. You should not dissolve in a man, but you cannot completely move away. Find a middle ground and stick to it. Good luck creating the perfect relationship!
