The question of finding a soul mate in modern society is very acute. It would seem that the presence of all kinds of communications should have made this task easier. But, as it turned out, gadgets only complicate it. And all because mobile communications and the Internet do not teach how to make acquaintance with the goal of a serious relationship, but are more suitable for harmless flirting.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to clearly articulate your goal. Otherwise, acquaintance with a serious man will not work. Judge for yourself, if you just chat about "nothing" on the forums, the matter will not go further than virtual kisses.
Step 2
You need to understand what you mean by a serious relationship. Surely - the creation of a family and the birth of a child. To find a potential partner, you must first prepare by finding out what kind of man you want to see as your spouse, and make him want you.
Step 3
Perhaps it's worth starting an acquaintance with a serious man from the last point. To "hook" a future husband, it is necessary that he sees you as a good wife. Note that a man's interest and desire to marry can only be aroused by forming the qualities that attract him. In one phrase, they can be described as follows: to become a faithful companion in life, who will reveal his potential and help a man to realize himself as a person. Therefore, it is better to leave all the habits of an emancipated young lady to careerists.
Step 4
And now the most difficult question is brewing - where to bring acquaintance with the goal of a serious relationship. It is foolish to expect that you can meet a man to start a family in a nightclub, restaurant, erotic forum or dating site. For the most part, there are life-skaters, "married" people or lovers of sex without obligations "hanging out".
Step 5
Looking for a husband is best in reality. First of all, you need to pay attention to studios of interest (not nightclubs!), For example, theater or pop. Also, serious men, due to their profession or at the level of a hobby, attend technical workshops, various conferences, exhibitions, concerts, presentations, and openings. If a man is passionate about art, he will never miss another major premiere in cinema or theater. In such establishments there is a cafe, so it will be possible to start a casual conversation by discussing a film or a play.
Step 6
In principle, such communication can be found on thematic sites. Only when meeting online is there always a risk that when meeting in person, a man will not be who he claims to be.
Step 7
Summing up, we can say that making acquaintance with a serious man is real if you take certain actions. Sitting on the couch, not visiting any cultural public places, not engaging in self-development, not possessing any hobbies and at least the minimum set of qualities of a wife, it is extremely difficult to find the man of your dreams.
