Many single girls dream of a relationship with a serious guy who could become a reliable support in life. At first glance, there is nothing special in such an aspiration, nevertheless, it is not uncommon for gigolos, drunkards or misogynists to come across instead of serious men. In order to get to know the right person, you need to remember some points.
Dating options with guys
The easiest way nowadays is to find a serious partner on the Internet. However, if you try to attract attention to yourself with photos in your underwear and frivolous poses, then there is practically no chance to interest an intelligent person. It is also undesirable to come on a date with bright makeup, in short skirts and blouses with a deep neckline. After all, the purpose of dating is marriage, and not a dubious short-term relationship.
Among acquaintances in bars or restaurants, it is highly likely that you will stumble upon a drinking person. Such a person can be recognized by conversation. During the conversation, these people often touch on the topic of alcohol. They know which brand of cognac is the best, tell you which wine is more suitable for barbecue, etc. If a guy constantly mentions alcohol, you should be wary.
The gigolo guy can also be figured out by his conversations. He loves to show off, talking about his high position in society, prestigious work and other "successes" in life. Serious guys can brag too, but within reason, what they say can be verified in most cases. Alphonses, on the other hand, seek to extract more information about her from their acquaintance, while getting confused in their own stories. It is sad that the essence of such guys can only be understood over time, when it becomes obvious that what was said earlier does not coincide with reality.
Recommendations for girls
Sometimes girls, in order to protect themselves from dishonest guys, when they meet, tell them that they do not have their own housing, and their salaries are low. If this is not true, it is better to refuse such a move. This is due to the fact that serious guys may not be interested in a girl who, apart from problems, has nothing.
In the absence of mutual friends with a new acquaintance, it is not recommended to rush to invite him to visit your home. Better to let the first dates take place on neutral territory. It's good if communication takes place not only by phone, but also via the Internet. Information posted on social networks on a guy's page can tell a lot about him.
If the purpose of dating is not a fleeting relationship out of boredom, but the creation of a family, you should always tell the guy directly about this. Married, single, freedom-loving individuals will quickly drop out. There will only be those who are really ready for a serious relationship with a sequel. They will seek the attention of their chosen one, give flowers, support and help her in every possible way.
