Yesterday you could not live a day without each other, but now the relationship has become cool. It is not clear what lies behind the male detachment - the threat of a breakup or just fatigue. What can you do to test your feelings?
Instructions
Step 1
Even seemingly ideal alliances have their ups and downs. Perhaps you are experiencing a temporary cooling period, do not panic. Consider the situation from all sides, try to be objective.
Step 2
What exactly provokes your doubts about your husband's feelings? He stopped giving flowers, stays late in the evenings, spends weekends with friends? Make sure your worries are not far-fetched. For example, if your husband has a stressful period at work, he needs to spend more time there, and your jealousy has no real basis.
Step 3
Ask your husband to help you with the housework, involve you in family affairs. How long has he been interested in his son's school grades? Maybe you are taking on too much and he has withdrawn so as not to interfere with you being in charge. Let him know that you need care and attention, then his attitude towards you will become obvious.
Step 4
Spend a weekend together, have a romantic weekend. These days you will not be disturbed by your everyday worries. You can understand a lot by the mood of your husband, his behavior, and even how he will take this offer. A loving person is always ready to revive feelings, putting aside problems.
Step 5
Go for a little trick. Throw a party with your friends, be sure to be there with your spouse. Let old acquaintances watch you. Would they feel that your relationship has become more restrained? Sometimes outside judgments bring a lot of useful information that the person himself simply cannot notice.
Step 6
Yet the best way to test feelings is to ask them directly. Say that you have doubts and suspicions, and you do not want to deal with them alone. In any case, you can count on the frankness of your spouse, together you will overcome a difficult period, because marriage is dear to both of you.
