Sometimes it is very difficult to persuade your mom and dad to do something, especially when it comes to something unusual and unconventional. Most parents are sure that they know life better and are not ready to give in to their children in their “strange” desires. One of these desires may be the desire to get pierced. There are methods by which you can convince any, even the most conservative, parents.
It is necessary
patience and good communication skills
Instructions
Step 1
Think about the cons of the situation you are in. Weigh the pros and cons. What kind of relationship are you with your parents now? Why can they allow you to get pierced? Do you have good grades in school? Do you take parental assignments?
Step 2
Think of what you can offer them so that they say “Yes”. A good barter can be a promise to finish the quarter without a C, sign up for the sports section, or always come home before ten in the evening.
Step 3
Never use as an example your friends who already have piercings. The worst option would be to report that Tanya's parents are more accommodating than your own.
Step 4
Begin your persuasion with the parent who is less conservative and more open minded. If you usually find it easier to persuade your mom, wait until she is in a good mood and start talking about piercings.
Step 5
Show your parents what they think are worthy members of the community who have piercings. Explain to them that piercings are not done in clandestine dens, but in professional studios with sterile equipment. If they want to go to the salon with you, do not interfere with this desire.
Step 6
If you failed to persuade your parents to get pierced the first time, you should not despair or throw tantrums. Wait another week and get back to the conversation, ideally with good grades and completed lessons.
