Even if you have been together for a long time, doubts remain that you will hear “Yes” in response to an offer to marry you. After all, it's one thing to meet, and another thing to build a family. The responsibility lies with the man and the woman alike. When making an offer, you must convince your potential bride of the seriousness of your intentions and find such words for this, after hearing which she can only answer in the affirmative.
Instructions
Step 1
Getting married is a serious and responsible step, symbolizing your final maturation and independence. Even if your parents are ready to help you, it is worth considering the future of your family without taking into account their material participation.
Step 2
Think about how you will live for at least the next five years. Most likely, if there is no separate apartment yet, you will have to rent it, but at the same time save money to buy your own home or purchase it on a mortgage. Please note that in the near future or in a couple of years you may have a child. Map out and describe the milestones of your family and tell your bride about them when you propose to her. This approach will convince her that you are an adult, serious person, quite ready to take responsibility for the family, to become a husband and father.
Step 3
For all the pragmatism, women are very emotional and sentimental. Your proposal should sound in a romantic, beautiful and memorable setting. It's good if it is unexpected, but here you have to try, the notorious female intuition is not an invention. Women are able to feel this moment in advance, but it's worth trying. Choose a place where your recognition and proposal will sound more appropriate - a cozy quiet restaurant, a noisy party with friends, a trip to nature.
Step 4
Do not forget to buy a beautiful, original ring, even if not very expensive, that you will put on her finger in honor of your engagement. This, of course, is traditional and not very original, but the event in honor of which it was bought is quite traditional.
Step 5
If a girl is ready to start a family life with you, then you will not have to persuade her. In some cases, she may be hesitant. For example, if her task for the near future is to live for herself or for career growth, and the birth of children is not included in the plans. If you are ready to take into account her plans and desires, then, it seems to us, you can hear "Yes" in this case. This willingness to understand and find a compromise is a great sign of the maturity of your relationship, so the wedding will be a completely natural stage in their development.
