Parents and children are very different categories of people. Therefore, it often happens that the interests of parents and children do not coincide. The child wants something, but the parents do not give consent. What is the right thing to do in such a situation? How to achieve your goal?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, keep yourself in control. It is clear that the nerves are already at the limit, it seems that the parents just rested, and I just want to break off and be rude. This cannot be done! Better, on the contrary, to appease the parents, "suck up". Mom, for sure, will see through this trick, but her loving heart will not resist.
Step 2
Comparison works well. Give an example that friends have long had something that you also want to have, that you do not want to be worse than others. What kind of parents would want their child to look like a "black sheep".
Step 3
You can persuade mom and dad to agree if you convince them that it is even profitable for them to buy what you ask for. Or give permission to travel. To find strong arguments, mentally put yourself in the shoes of your parents and think about what arguments can be used to persuade them.
Step 4
If earlier promises made to parents were always fulfilled, then offer in exchange for their consent to do something. For example, improve grades or help around the house. It is clear that the promise will have to be fulfilled, otherwise the parents simply will not believe it next time.
Step 5
To persuade your parents to allow them to stay at a party, go camping with an overnight stay, spend the night with a friend or friend, find someone who can vouch for you. This should be a responsible person whom the parents trust.
Step 6
And, finally, if nothing happens right away, then patience is the key to success. Look for a weak point in your parents, take new attempts at a time when they are in a good mood. The chances of persuading mom and dad will increase significantly. And luck will smile!
