You met the girl of your dreams and managed to strike up a relationship with her. Your love has taken on a more serious level, and now it's time to get to know her parents. She's probably already told them how wonderful you are. In order not to let your loved one down and not to disappoint her loved ones, you must make the best impression on them.
Instructions
Step 1
So, you are going to visit her parents. The very first thing they will notice is your appearance. You must look good. Wear a nice ironed shirt and trousers. Get your shoes ready. If it's summer, you can wear a white T-shirt and dark jeans. Your appearance should indicate that you are a neat and respectable man.
Step 2
Don't go on a visit empty-handed. Buy flowers for her mother, but first check with your beloved what kind of flowers your future mother-in-law prefers. You can give her dad a small gift. If he's okay with alcohol, buy a bottle of a quality alcoholic beverage. Most importantly, do not forget to give flowers to your chosen one to show her parents how much you appreciate her.
Step 3
Do not be nervous when entering their house. Meet, tell them that their daughter told a lot of good things about them. When you are invited to the table, remember that you have to take care of your girlfriend all the time. Move aside a chair for her, gallantly give her a hand so that she can sit down. Take care of her. Try to keep it all light and easy so that parents can see that you are caring for their daughter every day, not just today.
Step 4
Answer all the questions they ask you. You shouldn't embellish your achievements too much. If you have achieved almost nothing in life, let them know that you are a very serious and promising man. Talk about work, school, business, life plans.
Step 5
Take an interest in the lives of your interlocutors, otherwise you will get the impression that you have come for an interrogation. Ask them questions politely. Take an interest in your beloved's childhood. Perhaps you can spend a pleasant evening looking at children's photos. Get her father interested. Try to pick a moment and talk to him about sports to find a common theme.
Step 6
Watch your expressions. Speak beautifully and clearly. Do not raise your voice or gesture too much. Do not argue with her parents, do not discuss with them other people's problems, intimate issues, wages, religion, your ex-girlfriends and their daughter's shortcomings. They should make a good impression of you as a balanced, well-mannered young man who loves their baby very much and will never give her offense.
Step 7
As you leave, thank your parents for the lovely dinner and warm welcome. Tell them you had a wonderful evening with them. Whenever possible, be sincere so that they truly believe you.
