If your boyfriend pays more attention to his friends, you probably feel uncomfortable. Don't let the situation take its course. Understand why your boyfriend is spending too much time with friends and try to change that moment.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not reproach the young man with meetings with friends. By doing this, you will only turn him against yourself. Be wiser and take his side. Remember that you are not opponents, you are not enemies. You are a couple and need to support each other. Try to find out what exactly he does when he goes out with friends. If he just talks, you can probably join his company. If for some reason your boyfriend is still resisting this, act gradually. To get started, make an appointment right after meeting with friends or before.
Step 2
Be more active. Call the young man yourself, talk to him. Do not take a passive position, do not wait for his call. Use the time when you cannot meet for your own interests, because you probably have your own friends, hobbies, hobbies. Start doing something new and focus on your development.
Step 3
Talk to your significant other. If this is your boyfriend's first real relationship, he may not understand what you expect from him. Now he is as comfortable having fun with his friends as he was before meeting you. Do not throw tantrums, but calmly explain that this behavior offends you, that you want to spend more time together. Find out if he is ready for a serious relationship. If not, you can either wait for it to mature, or find someone who will pay you more attention, as you deserve.
Step 4
Consider if your relationship is real. When your boyfriend is interested in you, has genuine sympathy for you, he will spend more time with you than with friends. If this is not the case, it may not be very important for him to be around. Whether you need to continue dating this person and cry into your pillow, or is it better to find someone who can correctly prioritize, it's up to you.
