Date planning usually falls on the guy's shoulders. Even if you've agreed to just wander aimlessly around town, you need to have a backup plan to charm the girl and keep her from getting bored. Where to take a girl on a first date depends on many factors: your financial capabilities, city, weather, interests and hobbies of the girl. But there are several win-win options.
Instructions
Step 1
Cafe or restaurant. Usually a meeting is scheduled in a small cafe, where you can sit over a cup of tea, get to know each other without haste, discuss common interests, and get to know each other better. As a rule, a man pays for the order, but if you have a different opinion, warn the girl in advance so that an uncomfortable situation does not turn out.
Step 2
If the weather is fine outside and your city has a beautiful park or promenade, you can take a leisurely walk, talking and enjoying the view. This method of dating is suitable for shy girls, they become more talkative while walking. It will be good if you think over the route in advance and learn interesting facts about certain sights of the city.
Step 3
Don't forget about the cultural pastime. Theaters, philharmonic societies, and operas are not so popular for dating anymore, but cinemas can make a date interesting, especially if you have communication problems. When you come out after the film, you can discuss it, and then smoothly move on to discuss other films.
Step 4
For young couples, it will be appropriate to bring more liveliness to the date. Walks, cafes, movies - this will not be remembered, will not help to win the girl. Better to come up with an original way to have fun. If there is a park with carousels in the city, you can spend a date there, having fun on swings and roller coasters. Such a fun walk will definitely be remembered by your companion.
Step 5
But if you choose an unusual way to spend your time, be sure to warn the girl about the "dress code". After all, if she is in an evening dress, tuned in to a restaurant, and you bring her to an amusement park, her impressions will be spoiled.
Step 6
When choosing a venue for your first date, consider the girl's preferences and hobbies. If she doesn't like classical music, don't take her to the Philharmonic. If you feel unsure and cannot decide on a plan for the evening, consult with her. It's better to talk it over beforehand than to make an awkward decision about where to go when you meet.
