Not everyone and not always manage to build good relationships with relatives. The complexity of characters, the clash of generations, emotional breakdowns lead to constant scandals and reproaches in the family. And this, I must say, adversely affects the atmosphere as a whole. To avoid this, it is necessary to build a certain pattern of behavior and attitude towards relatives.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember that your relatives are the people closest to you. And even though your opinions and outlook on life sometimes do not coincide, nevertheless, you must understand that you will not have these people closer. And in general, the people with whom you communicate, no matter whether they are relatives, your friends or just acquaintances, are not obliged to think and reason the way you do. Just accept them as they are.
Step 2
It makes no sense to be offended by your relatives. No matter how long your resentment and rejection lasts, they still will not go anywhere from you. Therefore, instead of fanning conflict, pauses, or growing resentment, spend your energy better on resolving misunderstandings, understatements and mutual reproaches in the family.
Step 3
Don't compete with your loved ones or try to be better. Remember that you are what you are, no better and no worse than them. This will make you feel much freer. And if one of your relatives is trying to do this, then just do not pay attention to it. Over time, he will simply get tired of doing this, seeing your indifference and indifference in this ridiculous competition.
Step 4
If you are dissatisfied with something or you do not like something, you do not need to be silent about it. Thus, you will not avoid conflict, but on the contrary, having accumulated everything in yourself, one day you will explode like a bomb. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion or dissatisfaction. After all, this is absolutely natural and always commands respect (just do not overdo it). But strive to do this always in a benevolent form, trying not to offend your relatives and friends.
