Your heart is broken. You have lost a loved one and now you do not know how to live without him. Everything around him became uninteresting and unnecessary. Is it possible to start all over again, but already without it? Do not despair, you can still find happiness, you just need to realize that through suffering you still will not return it.
Why does love go away
Think about why you lost your love? After all, it all started so well, together you were one. In fact, if you broke up, things were not as rosy as you thought. People disagree because of their different personalities, outlook on life, needs, financial status and hobbies. Perhaps your lover just wanted to be free again. Some people are afraid of responsibility and true intimacy. They are looking for any reason to break up in order to become independent. You can break up with your boyfriend for many reasons. But the most important thing that needs to be understood in such a situation is that life goes on and there are many wonderful things ahead of you, although in a moment of grief it is difficult to believe this fact.
How to forget a loved one
To forget your loved one, first of all, stop dating him. If you don't see him at all, sooner or later, he will start to fade from your memory.
Keep yourself busy. Write a list of what you planned to do, set yourself several goals that you want to achieve. Surely, because of your relationship with your ex-lover, you did not have time to do a lot. Commit yourself to study or work.
Go in for sports, start learning a foreign language, go on a trip. There are many things in the world that you have not yet seen. Limit your free time so that you don't have a chance to succumb to the memories and dreams of unfulfilled love.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Analyze your relationship, draw the necessary conclusions so as not to make such mistakes in the future. Try to smile more often and enjoy each new day. Along with the loss of your loved one, you received not only freedom, but also a chance to change yourself and your life for the better.
If you can't get rid of the thoughts about him at all, then remember not the good moments, but only all the bad things that he said and did in relation to you. Think about the fact that, most likely, the moment you shed tears over him, he is already hugging another girl. And if he forgot you so quickly, maybe he is not at all worthy of your love. Disgusting yourself is better than feeling love for someone who no longer reciprocates.
Don't close your heart to new love. It now seems to you that you will not find a man who will be better than his ex. Hang out with friends, have fun, and soon you will meet a nice young man. Perhaps he will prove to you that your past love was a banal crush.
