In our time, it has become unacceptable to hand children over to their fathers. They will not cope, they will not be able to, this is not a man's business, they themselves do not want to - each family has its own reason. But the role of the father does not end with the extraction of food. A father is very capable and must give his children for harmonious development.
1. Mom is soft, fluid, affectionate. This does not mean at all that dad should not be like that. But you must admit, after all, men are by nature more solid and straightforward. No matter how much we try to become equal to each other in everything, these differences will always remain. They are inherent in us by nature, they are reflected even in our body. And it is precisely this male-female model that is very important for the healthy development and maturation of a person. By "pushing" the father into the background, we deprive our children of the opportunity to get acquainted with the male part of this world.
2. The father is the protector. And this is also provided by nature. Any average man is stronger and tougher than the average woman. It is men who are taken to the war and into the army, it is men who are involved in hard physical labor, it is from men that we expect help in collisions with hooligans - this is correct and natural. The post-war period of our grandmothers, the “woman is a comrade” of our mothers, the radical feminism of our time - for three generations of families already get used to the fact that a woman can cope on her own, men are not needed at all. We live in this reality distorted by trauma, and do not notice how we move further and further away from the natural and healthy. Power is given to a man not in order to offend the weak, but in order to protect them. But the less we invest this understanding in our children, the less men themselves broadcast this postulate into the world, the more difficult it is for all of us and our children to live in the future.
3. The Father gives a very different physical experience in this life. And this manifests itself from the very infancy. While mom strokes and hugs, father throws up to the ceiling. Again, notice that mom physically cannot do this. Mom is terrified, grandmother is fainting, and the child is delighted to feel that it is possible anyway, I can also fly! Diverse experiences help children see the world wider. And believe me, mom will not be able to give a lot of all this.
