Raising a child is one of the most important goals for parents. His future life will depend on this, what kind of person he will grow up and what place he will occupy in society.
Any parents want their child to grow up as a well-mannered person, and this requires a lot of effort. First of all, the parents themselves must set a good example for their child. A parent must be polite and honest, kind and sympathetic, understanding and friendly person if he wants his child to be the same.
Some parents do not adhere to these rules, and as a result, the child repeats the same pattern of behavior, and then the parents wonder why their child does not behave appropriately. The older generation is obliged to set a good example, otherwise education will not make any sense.
The very process of raising a child is very long and laborious. It includes many factors, for example, such as: politeness towards others, self-confidence, responsibility for their actions, and much more.
First of all, parents must be consistent in their child's upbringing. Any encouragement or prohibition on any action should be repeated from day to day. If this is not followed, the child will understand that the established rules are optional and will begin to break them.
It is very important to reward your child for any merits and success in what he likes to do. Thus, he will understand that he is doing it and will begin to do what he loves more diligently. So you can later choose a hobby or even a future profession for the child.
Of course, reward is an important aspect in raising a child, but punishment must also be present. If it is not used, the child will not understand what should not be done and why. But it is very important to choose an adequate punishment. It must be proportionate to his deed. In no case should a child be intimidated and raised only by screaming, because this can lead to disastrous consequences.
It is very important to give the child some independence in their actions. In some moments, you can give him a choice, and if it turns out to be wrong, the child will understand this and will learn from his mistakes. Such independence in choice will further lead to confidence in their actions and responsibility for their actions.
In no case should you compare your child with others, because this can form a wrong opinion about others and yourself. Better to compare him with who he was yesterday and who he is today. This will help him understand how to behave in some situations.
