From time immemorial, a woman has been given to manage the household alone and not to complain. But now times have changed, and the fairer sex work on an equal basis with men. Still, the stronger sex often believes that it is the woman who should cook, do the cleaning, take care of the children. To minimize the situations in which the husband sits in front of the TV, and the wife wanders around the house with a rag, the faithful must be taught to be in order.
Instructions
Step 1
Explain: More often than not, a man is simply unaware of the existing problems. That is why you need to explain the situation to him, complain that you do not have time to do everything yourself, and you have no strength. It's a good idea to remind you that you have equal rights and obligations.
Step 2
"Digging" of inclusion. In a woman, by nature, the function of "cleaning" is built in, and a man got another - "to obey". How to teach your husband to be in order? Men only follow clear rules. That is why it is necessary to establish some everyday norms. Sooner or later, the husband begins to follow these rules. Is he throwing his socks around? And you just don't pick them up, leave them in place. One day he will wake up, see that he is left without clean socks, and he will start sending them to the wash. The main thing is to continue to keep his word and carry out his threats, so he will learn to be collected.
Step 3
Trouble-free trick There is one very interesting and effective trick with which it is easy to teach your husband to order. For example, it has been a month since it was necessary to hammer in nails, and he did not even lift a finger. And you take the hammer in your hands and demonstratively do its work. A caring and conscientious man must select the hammer and continue this work himself.
Step 4
Encouragement - It is very important to reward a man. If he did something useful around the house, praise him, tell him that he is the best, the most caring, that he is a real man. Sometimes ask him for help. For example: “Honey, are you home already? Then throw in your laundry and T-shirts! If your husband does this, praise and thank him. But if you didn't, then you can get upset, but no offense or scandals. Just be sincerely upset and explain your condition by the fact that you would like to see a person next to you, whom you can rely on in difficult situations.
Step 5
What is not said does not exist. You have probably heard of such a masculine trait: he needs to talk about his exploits. Recalculate all the things that you managed to do (washed the dishes, ironed, washed the clothes, vacuumed, and so on). After that, you can ask the husband to do at least something. Let him then paint his labor exploits. The main thing is that he gets used to the idea that helping his wife is quite normal.
