First date - just the thought of it makes your heart beat faster. The girl prepares for it, thinks about how everything can go, although it is, of course, almost impossible to plan the course of events. How to behave on the first date so as not to be mistaken? There are several recommendations in this regard.
Time and place are important. If the young man made an appointment himself, then you don't have to worry about it, but if you meet and then the two of you figure out what to do, then you can just in case have several ideas in your head. Neutral options are suitable that will allow you to chat and have fun - a walk in a park or boulevard, sitting in a cafe or coffee shop with a cup of your favorite aromatic drink, going to the cinema. Think about it just in case, but keep in mind that the guy usually suggests the place.
How to look - girls usually know very well about this. But there are also pitfalls, for example, if you prepare too carefully, it can be striking and look ridiculous. A hairstyle clearly done in a hairdresser, bright makeup and uncomfortable shoes will not make you a princess, but the whole evening will prevent you or those around you from feeling comfortable and free. The same goes for perfume - be careful with perfume, don't overdo it. A great option is to wear something fairly casual and “proven”, but at the same time something that would make you look great.
How to behave? This is one of the most important questions for girls. Try to be natural, confident, but not overwhelming. Relax and just enjoy communicating with an interesting person, do not pretend to be someone else.
What to talk about on a first date? Try not to talk only about yourself. Listen to your companion, take an interest in his life. Do not interrupt him, and if he is joking, laugh at his words. Don't giggle, but don't go into hysterics of laughter either. Plain polite conversation is something to start with, and then you will find questions that interest both of you, and you will no longer need to think about topics of conversation.
Do not look at him with adoration and delight. Looking easily approachable is not something that you should allow yourself on the first date. Of course, you do not need to pretend to be a cold and unapproachable person, but still try to behave quite modestly. Even if you yourself want sex from him, and you do not intend to wait, nevertheless, let him get the impression that this was not part of your plans, but you simply could not resist under the influence of his charm.
No matter how the date ends, no matter what kind of relationship it may lead to between you, in any case, you can learn from the date an important life experience.
