The guy liked the girl. And she, too, seems to be pleased with his company. He makes an appointment with her, she agrees. And then it often happens like this: an agitated guy from embarrassment does not even know what to talk about with a girl on the first date! There are awkward pauses. How to avoid such a situation, what topics are better to cover in a conversation?
How to start a conversation with a girl?
Feel free to talk about yourself. If the girl agreed to come on a date, it means that the young man is at least not indifferent to her. Rather, she likes him. But if the girl remains disappointed with the first date, she is unlikely to want to date this guy any further. Therefore, if a young man does not want the first date to be the last, he must immediately make a good impression on the girl, demonstrate that he is an intelligent, serious, well-mannered person. To do this, you need to tell about yourself - where he studies or works, what plans for the future, what has already been achieved. You can also talk about your hobbies, hobbies, for example, what kind of music he likes to listen to, how he spends his free time.
Do not exaggerate your merits, but do not diminish them.
You can also start a conversation with her hobbies, hobbies. If she was vacationing abroad, the young man may inquire about the country's favorite attractions. It is necessary to speak in a confident, calm voice. You should not look at the girl point-blank, otherwise she may be embarrassed, "close". But periodically meeting her eyes is not only possible, but also necessary.
To create a relaxed atmosphere, you can tell a funny story, share your impressions of a trip to some country, for example.
What to talk to a girl about?
Talk about what is interesting to a beautiful person. In order for the conversation to proceed in a friendly, relaxed atmosphere, it would be good to first make inquiries about the interlocutor. After all, if a guy knows what a lady is fond of, what her tastes are, it will be much easier for him to interest the girl. Especially if it turns out that they have some common hobbies, hobbies, preferences.
To do this, you can visit her pages on social networks, talk about the girl with common acquaintances.
You can ask about her tastes and hobbies directly on a date. But you shouldn't be too persistent in asking questions. The girl shouldn't get the impression that this guy is not very tactful.
In no case should you ask a girl about her ex-boyfriends. In the same way, you should not remember your ex-girlfriends, let alone compare her with them. If the first date makes a good impression on the girl, she will almost certainly want to continue dating the guy.
