Acquaintance is over, now you want to know more about each other and decide whether to continue the relationship. To do this, you go on a first date, on which their development or completion will depend. But sometimes one conversation is enough to alienate a potential gentleman. And all because the topics for conversation were the most inappropriate.
You have done the right makeup, hairstyle, manicure, dressed neatly, now you should think about what to say. To do this, you must be aware of the taboo topics of the first date.
About the former
Refrain from curses, bullying and gossip about your ex, from stories about the failure in the relationship and the details of the breakup. Who left whom, under what circumstances, with what facial expression and words - no one needs to know. It is quite possible that you have a man in front of you who will become your chosen one for many years. Why scare him with anger and negativity? A potential groom may assume that you and him will throw mud if he decides to part with you. If you cannot avoid talking about your past relationship, talk about it in general terms with a slight smile, focusing on the fact that you do not hold grudges, that the “ex” is a good person and you are grateful to him for the experience.
About troubles
Crying into a vest for an unfamiliar person is the height of madness. Men are interested in positive ladies without problems, kind, smiling, ready to listen and support. Therefore, dumping a heap of your troubles on your head means doing everything so that the first date becomes the last.
About the material condition
Any young man will be alerted by inquiries about his work and income. If he is wealthy, he will avoid kept women; if he is limited in means, it is unpleasant for him to admit his inability to earn a lot.
About family tree
The first date is not the best time for a tedious story about the family tree in four generations. Your chosen one will find out about relatives, if desired, and later. It is not worth scaring him with the need to meet his mother.
About plans for the future
Oddly enough, but it is better to keep silent about it. After all, if they do not fundamentally coincide with his plans, then this is a weighty reason for stopping communication. And if love overtakes you, then you will be ready to change everything overnight.
About myself in a superlative degree
You still have to tell something about yourself. Try not to dump as soon as others admire you, and what a talented child you have grown since childhood. Keep it simple, leave riddles for the future, but be sure to mention your optimistic outlook on things and your kindness.
Sex
If you do not want to get into the category of girls for one night, it is better to bypass the topic of intimacy with humor and tact, jokingly and letting you understand the framework of your inherent decency.
Mistakes on the first date are difficult to avoid, but whether you remember them with laughter later together or with horror and shame separately depends only on you.
